India: ‘Mum was willing to lose everything to support my trans identity’

A transgender woman who became the first to legally marry in India's Tamil Nadu state speaks of her mother's unwavering support.

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"Srija is a gift," Valli, 45, tells the BBC as she and her daughter embrace.

"I know that not all trans people have what I have," Srija, 25, from the port city of Thoothukudi, adds.

"My education, my job, my marriage - everything was possible because of my mother's support."

She and her mother are sharing their story for the first time in Amma's Pride (Mother's Pride), which follows Srija's unique experience.